I completely agree that excessive screen time can be harmful, simply because it forms a habit very difficult to break. I have been extremely careful with ‘habit-formation’ in my kid’s early years.
For e.g. We made sure we read a few books to him at bedtime, and over the years it has become such a deep rooted habit, that when it’s late and we’re exhausted, he still stubbornly insists on reading at least one book. Or I made sure he had oatmeal and broccoli ever since he started eating, and those are now his comfort foods.
Similarly, we’ve *never* put on any cartoon channel on our television and since he is simply not used to watching YouTube videos on a daily basis, he himself gives the iPad back after the 20 minute timer goes off.
Having said that I think it is ridiculous to cut your cable connection and never open your laptop in front of kids. My almost 4 year old has access to my devices at all times, which is a good thing!
He sends voice messages through WhatsApp to his grandparents everyday (which is the cutest thing!). And when he gets back from school, he checks what voice text they’ve sent back. He FaceTimes with them on his own and he even sends text messages with the few sight words he knows! He can connect the iPad to the Bluetooth speaker and play his own music. He answers calls and even makes calls when he wants. He takes pictures with my camera phone, compact camera *and* SLR. And when getting dressed every morning for school, he checks the weather and temperature on my weather app and announces it to all- so we can dress accordingly.
He even uses his pretend google maps while cruising around with his toy truck! So technology is good thing! It’s teaching him so much!
The following apps can be given to kids to keep busy when travelling or when you need some peace & quiet while you nap. I'm dividing them into
- easy peasy, non-frustrating, i.e. can be solved w/o adult supervision, i.e. great for adult "me" time.
- Medium level, where a little adult supervision is required, but great for exercising their brains!
- Difficult, mmmmaybe for 4 or 5 year old kids!